Gender Is Same And Equal - 3553 Words

1 Xiaotong Liu COM300 20 Mar, 2016: Undoing My Gender?Each Gender Is Same and Equal Introduction?This is a project that we play other genders which are not played in daily life. You can really do something about changing appearance or you can choose to change your daily behaviors and communication methods with people. For my project, I used another totally different masculine communication method to talk with my friends and parents. When staying with my friends, I am the person who always care others feeling so that I seldom express my real feeling. To create a happier and more harmonious atmosphere, I would rather choose to sacrifice myself. However, when living with my parents, I always express my love and†¦show more content†¦Description of the performance?What I first want to do is describing my performance. I would like to divide it into two parts. One is my friends and another is my parents. I also found two different types of my friends. One is more collectivism and feminism and we can call her Kiara, another is more individualism and masculine and w e can call her Cindy. About the performance with Kiara, because my dorm did not have hot water, I went to her dorm to take shower. She played joke on me like we always do with each other. But this time, she turned of the light when I was taking shower. I am scared of dark, especially taking shower. As usual, although I feel uncomfortable, I do not show it. However, because of this challenge and I really wanted her to know that something cannot play joke, I expressed my anger. She was shocked at that moment and tried to relax the atmosphere. I still showed her the emotion deliberately. I could easily feel that she was guilty and hoped me to cool down. After a day, I told her the truth and explained that this is my challenge though I was really afraid of dark. In my expectation, after knowing the truth, she would feel a little angry because it liked that I fooled her. But she did not. She just feel a little speechless and unlucky that becoming my test subject. And she also said that s he was not angry because it was her wrong that making me feel helpless in dark. For Cindy?s part, she did not play joke on me, but had a different opinion